Smolder

How couples actually use it

Real nights, real taps.

Pick a deck or a mini-game below — each block has a reach for it when moment and a try this first recipe so nothing feels abstract.

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By deck

When to reach for each deck — and a first night that works.

  • Teasing

    Light, fun, flirty warm-ups.

    Reach for it when…

    • You’re on the couch after dinner with zero agenda.
    • It’s a Tuesday and you don’t want a Whole Thing — just a spark.

    Try this first

    1. Open Teasing on one phone at intensity 1–2.
    2. Pass the phone: five draws each, no skipping ahead.
    3. Stop on the first card neither of you wants to skip.
    4. Do that card for real — then put the phones away.
    “Hold their gaze for a full minute. No talking, no phones.”

  • Truth

    Sexy questions to spark connection.

    Reach for it when…

    • You want conversation without pressure to “perform.”
    • You’re reconnecting after a busy week and need soft entry.

    Try this first

    1. Sit shoulder-to-shoulder (same room helps).
    2. Open Truth — alternate who reads the card aloud.
    3. If a question lands heavy, you get one “pass” each — no shame.
    4. End after eight cards or twenty minutes, whichever comes first.
    “What's the first thing you noticed about me, honestly?”

  • Foreplay

    Building heat, getting close.

    Reach for it when…

    • You’re both in the same room and ready to slow down.
    • You’ve already decided “tonight” — you just need a tempo.

    Try this first

    1. Set the intensity dial where you both agree.
    2. Open Foreplay and draw one card at a time — no multitasking.
    3. If a card needs props you don’t have, redraw once.
    4. Let the Continue card pick up where you left off next time.
    “Trade three back-of-the-neck kisses, alternating who gives them.”

  • Roleplay

    Scenes and characters to play out.

    Reach for it when…

    • You want novelty and a scene already written.
    • You’re in a hotel or Airbnb and the setting already feels charged.

    Try this first

    1. Pick Roleplay and read the card’s setup out loud together.
    2. Set a 10-minute timer and stay in the scene.
    3. When the timer ends, debrief: what felt fun, what felt silly?
    4. Save a Memory snapshot if you want a private souvenir.
    “For the next ten minutes, you've never met. Introduce yourselves.”

  • Truth or Dare

    Pick your poison. Each card, you choose.

    Reach for it when…

    • You want back-and-forth energy with a clear turn structure.
    • You’re both a little competitive and a lot playful.

    Try this first

    1. Open Truth or Dare — each draw shows both options.
    2. Alternate who picks Truth vs Dare for the whole round.
    3. Use the dare timer when a card says “hold the pose” — haptics cue the handoff.
    4. Best of seven wins — winner picks the next deck.
    “Truth: a fantasy you've never said out loud. Dare: act on a part of it now.”

  • Sensory

    Touch, taste, temperature, blindfold.

    Reach for it when…

    • You want to slow the room down to one sense at a time.
    • You already have ice, oil, a scarf, or candles within reach.

    Try this first

    1. Dim the lights. Phones on Do Not Disturb.
    2. Open Sensory at an intensity you’ve both confirmed out loud.
    3. Do three cards in a row without talking between them.
    4. Close with Whisper: one scratch-to-reveal photo for tomorrow morning.
    “Trail a single ice cube along their collarbone — count to ten.”

  • Quickie

    30 seconds or less — go!

    Reach for it when…

    • You’ve got five minutes between obligations — hallway, kitchen, car.
    • You want urgency without negotiation.

    Try this first

    1. Open Quickie — first card is law, no debate.
    2. Set a 30-second timer on the lock screen if you need the push.
    3. One round only — then back to real life.
    4. Optional: one Whisper so they know you’re thinking about round two.
    “Pin them against the nearest door. Thirty seconds. Time starts now.”

  • Ultimate

    All in.

    Reach for it when…

    • You’ve both already said an enthusiastic yes tonight.
    • Your intensity dial is all the way up and you mean it.

    Try this first

    1. Confirm the dial and safeword/word-out once, out loud.
    2. Open Ultimate — alternate draws for the whole session.
    3. If a card is a hard limit, skip once per person with zero drama.
    4. Afterward: Whisper a burn-after-read line — no inbox trail.
    “Take turns leading for ten minutes each. They tell you what they want.”

  • Random

    Anything goes — pick of the litter.

    Reach for it when…

    • You can’t agree on a deck — decision fatigue is the mood killer.
    • You want the app to pick the tempo for you.

    Try this first

    1. Set the dial to the softer partner’s comfort ceiling.
    2. Hit Random — whatever comes up, you both commit for one draw.
    3. If it’s too hot, turn the dial down one notch and redraw once.
    4. Still stuck? Spin the wheel once, then return to Random.
    “Whatever the next card is, take it.”

Mini-games & modes

Same app — different shape to the night.

Each block is a self-contained recipe. Whisper is the only one that needs two paired phones for the full magic — everything else can start on one device passed between you.

  • Smolder spin wheel

    Spin wheel

    Reach for it when…

    • You’re standing in the kitchen with wine and decision fatigue.
    • Neither of you wants to pick the next move.

    Try this first

    1. Open Spin from the Games hub.
    2. Tap Spin once — the wheel only lands on decks you can play at your current heat.
    3. Whatever it picks, you both commit for one card from that deck.
    4. If it’s a miss, one redo — then you pick manually.
  • Smolder Dirty Dice three-roll combo

    Dirty Dice

    Reach for it when…

    • You want a single silly-hot instruction.
    • You’re already laughing and want to keep the energy going.

    Try this first

    1. Open Dirty Dice — three reels combine into one combo.
    2. Tap each reel to stop it (or let them auto-stop).
    3. Read the combo out loud together — then try it for one minute.
    4. Score the round if you’re keeping a playful tally in Memories.
  • Smolder scratch-off prompt

    Scratch-Offs

    Reach for it when…

    • You want a tactile reveal instead of instant text.
    • You’re handing them the phone as a surprise.

    Try this first

    1. Open Scratch-Offs from Games.
    2. They scratch with a finger until the prompt is fully revealed.
    3. Do the prompt immediately — no negotiation.
    4. Reset and pull one more if the first was logistically impossible tonight.
  • Smolder Yes No mutual matches

    Yes / No deck

    Reach for it when…

    • You want to surface mutual fantasies.
    • You’re curious but don’t want to show individual answers.

    Try this first

    1. Each of you opens Yes / No on your own phone (or pass one phone privately).
    2. Swipe independently — Smolder only shows mutual yeses.
    3. Pick one match to talk about tonight; park the rest.
    4. Conversation counts as a win.
  • Smolder Whisper peer-to-peer chat

    Whisper

    Reach for it when…

    • You’re apart during the day — desks, travel, different rooms.
    • You want zero cloud trail for flirty notes and photos.

    Try this first

    1. Pair phones once over Bluetooth + local Wi‑Fi (Connect tab).
    2. Send a scratch-to-reveal photo or a lock-with-code line they have to earn.
    3. Drop a poll for a micro-decision: playlist, takeout, lights on or off.
    4. Toggle burn-after-read when you want the thread to leave no trace.
  • Smolder Truth or Dare card

    Truth or Dare (card deck)

    Reach for it when…

    • You want both a question lane and a physical dare on every draw.
    • You like taking turns and a timer for dares that need one.

    Try this first

    1. Open the Truth or Dare deck (not the scratch game).
    2. Alternate who picks Truth vs Dare for the whole round.
    3. Use dare timer + haptics when the card calls for a held moment.
    4. End after six rounds or when you’re both ready to switch decks.
  • Smolder Games hub — open Stories from here

    Stories

    Reach for it when…

    • You want fiction-paced heat instead of discrete cards.
    • You have fifteen minutes and one good lamp.

    Try this first

    1. Open Stories from the hub — filter by mood, length, and heat.
    2. Read in partner mode: one of you swipes, the other listens.
    3. When a beat names a position, tap through to Position Hub if you want visuals.
    4. Stop at a chapter end — don’t rush the last page.
  • Smolder — trip nights often pair with guides

    Trip mode

    Reach for it when…

    • You’re on a multi-day trip or staycation and want a shared scoreboard.
    • You like private drops and daily scenes more than one-off cards.

    Try this first

    1. Start a trip from the home banner — name it and set the day count.
    2. Each day: hit Vacation Scenes for the time-slot prompts.
    3. Use Fantasy Drop Box for private daily matches; Naughty Notes for filthy one-liners.
    4. Award shared points for inside jokes — recap on the last night before you end the trip.

Full evening blueprints

Four nights, spelled out step by step.

Every line names a surface inside Smolder — decks, Whisper modes, Slow Burn, Trip, Memories — so you’re never guessing what to tap.

  • Tuesday in

    When the laundry won the day.

    Twenty intentional minutes. Phones are tools, then they go dark.

    1. Both home by 8. Drop phones face-down on the kitchen counter.
    2. One phone opens Smolder — set the intensity dial to 2 (both tap agree).
    3. Open Teasing. Pass the phone: five draws each, no skipping.
    4. Stuck between two good cards? Open Spin — one spin picks the winner.
    5. Do the winning card before you open the fridge again.
    6. Optional: save one Memory (Face ID) if you snapped something sweet.
    7. Hard stop at 25 minutes — kiss goodnight, app closed.

  • Hotel night

    The room is yours until 11am.

    Stretch anticipation across the day, then land together at night.

    1. After dinner out: start Slow Burn (Spicy) with 10 micro-tasks — set finale for when you’re back in the room.
    2. During the elevator ride: send one Whisper poll — music or silence?
    3. Back in the room: open Foreplay at the dial you already agreed on the flight.
    4. After three Foreplay draws: switch to Sensory if you brought props; otherwise stay on Foreplay.
    5. Before sleep: one scratch-to-reveal photo in Whisper — no peeking until you’re both in bed.
    6. Morning: send a short Whisper saying what you’re looking forward to tonight — burn-after-read if you want.
    7. Before you leave the hotel: clear Whisper if you want a clean slate; Memories follow your session choices.

  • Long-distance

    Same app, different cities.

    Whisper keeps you close when you’re in different cities.

    1. Next time you’re physically together: pair phones once in Connect (Bluetooth + local Wi‑Fi).
    2. While apart: use Whisper for short notes — lock-with-code for the spicy line, burn-after-read for the risky one.
    3. Drop a poll when you’re deciding a weekend plan — it’s faster than a 40-text thread.
    4. When you miss them bluntly: send a Whisper — scratch-to-reveal or burn-after-read keeps it private.
    5. Read a Story chapter over FaceTime audio — pause at every swipe break.
    6. Schedule the next in-person window inside Trip mode so the countdown feels shared.
    7. Optional: Yes / No deck solo first pass, then compare mutual matches when you reunite.

  • Reconnect

    After a rough week, soft is enough.

    The goal is being on the same team for an hour.

    1. Phones on Do Not Disturb. Sit on the same couch with a blanket.
    2. Open Truth at intensity 1 — alternate reading questions aloud.
    3. When a question lands, you each get one pass — no follow-up interrogation.
    4. Move to Yes / No. Matches you both want can come up out loud.
    5. Pick one mutual match to discuss for five minutes; shelf the rest in-app for later.
    6. If laughter shows up: one Spin round for a single silly dare, then close the app.
    7. End with Whisper: one message, burn-after-read, saying what you appreciated tonight.

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