An intimacy app for couples who are done with the dating-app churn. Mini-games, flirty messages, slow-burn prompts, getting-in-the-mood rituals, conception-night nudges, exploration tools — pick what fits.
Coming soon on iPhone. No swipes, no matches, no audience — just two phones, two people, and a quieter way to come back to each other.
Your prompts, photos, and matches stay on your phone. We don't have a cloud copy.
Whisper connects two phones over Bluetooth and Wi‑Fi — no relay servers in the middle.
Suggestive language with a heat dial you both control. Adults only, never explicit.
The arc
Four small moments that turn an ordinary Tuesday into something the two of you actually remember.
01
Set the scene
Pick a deck, a vibe, and an intensity together. Nothing is uploaded — your prompts and preferences live on your devices.
02
All-day tease
A drip of small, playful tasks. Some yours, some theirs, some only revealed at the moment. It builds toward one shared finale tonight.
03
Play together
Pick a deck that matches the tempo, or hand it to the wheel. Each draw is a small, specific suggestion — never a pile of options to debate.
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Whisper-only moments
Whisper pairs your phones directly over Bluetooth and local Wi‑Fi. Messages don't pass through us — there is no inbox on a server. When the night is over, you can clear the chat in one tap.
Use it however you want
Smolder isn't a single feature with a single use. It's a small toolkit for couples — pick what fits the night you're actually having.
Mini-games
Card decks, dice, a spin wheel, scratch-offs, and a private Yes/No deck. Pick a game when you have ten minutes and want to laugh with each other again.
Flirt all day
Whisper sends short prompts and notes from one phone to the other — peer-to-peer, no cloud, no inbox. Use it from your desks, the school run, or two cities apart.
Get in the mood
Lower the dial and Smolder hands you small, warm prompts: a question to ask, a song to slow-dance to, a single sense to focus on. The on-ramp before anything else.
Trying for a baby
When the calendar says "tonight's the night," the last thing you want is pressure. Smolder turns the timing window into something playful — slow prompts, eye contact, no clinical vibes.
Explore together
The Yes / No deck lets each of you privately tap yes, no, or maybe on a long list of ideas. Smolder only surfaces the ones you both said yes to. Conversation made easy.
Reconnect on a hard week
After kids, after a fight, after a stretch where you barely saw each other. Smolder ships short prompts that don't ask much: a kitchen slow-dance, a single kiss, one honest answer.
...and plenty more — birthday rituals, vacation evenings, Sunday-morning slow burns. Smolder gets out of the way and lets the two of you decide.
What's in the deck
Smolder isn't one giant pile of prompts — it's a curated set of small decks, each tuned to a specific tempo. Pick the one that matches the night you're actually having.
The dial
Set per session — both partners agree
1
Soft
2
Flirty
3
Playful
4
Bold
5
All in
Every deck is pinned to a base intensity. Crank the dial up to unlock hotter decks; turn it back down and the spicy prompts politely step aside.
Themed cards
Each deck has its own art so you know where you are at a glance.
Light, fun, flirty warm-ups.
Soft prompts that don't ask much: a glance held a beat too long, a whispered compliment, a slow-dance in the kitchen. The on-ramp.
“Hold their gaze for a full minute. No talking, no phones.”
Sexy questions to spark connection.
A deck of questions you wouldn't ask over dinner with friends — but maybe should be asking each other. Pure conversation, no action required.
“What's the first thing you noticed about me, honestly?”
Building heat, getting close.
Hands, mouths, and the slow build. Foreplay assumes you're in the same room and ready to slow down.
“Trade three back-of-the-neck kisses, alternating who gives them.”
Scenes and characters to play out.
Short prompts that hand you a scene to inhabit — strangers at a bar, a long-lost crush, a high-stakes secret. Improv, not Shakespeare.
“For the next ten minutes, you've never met. Introduce yourselves.”
Pick your poison. Each card, you choose.
A hybrid deck. Each draw gives you a Truth question and a Dare prompt — your move which one you take. Built for two-player back-and-forth.
“Truth: a fantasy you've never said out loud. Dare: act on a part of it now.”
Touch, taste, temperature, blindfold.
Slow the world down to a single sense. Ice, silk, candle wax (the safe kind), a folded scarf. Heat dial up, lights down.
“Trail a single ice cube along their collarbone — count to ten.”
30 seconds or less — go!
Punchy, fast, urgent. Designed for the hallway, the kitchen counter, the car before the babysitter texts. Timer optional.
“Pin them against the nearest door. Thirty seconds. Time starts now.”
All in. No holding back.
The deck that assumes you both said yes already. Reserved by intensity dial — it doesn't show up until you've turned the heat all the way up.
“Take turns leading for ten minutes each. They tell you what they want.”
Anything goes — pick of the litter.
Pulls from every deck you have access to, weighted by your current intensity. The button you press when you can't decide.
“Whatever the next card is, take it.”
Want to read actual prompts from each deck?
We have a small sample behind a quick 18+ confirmation.
Beyond the deck
The decks are the heart of Smolder, but they aren't the whole house. These four surfaces are what you reach for when you want a different shape to the night.
Position Hub
Browse positions with two distinct guides — one for each of you — so nobody is fumbling for whose hand goes where. Filter by mood, difficulty, and what you actually want to be doing.
Truth or Dare
A hybrid deck for the back-and-forth. Each draw shows you a Truth and a Dare — answer or act. Built around taking turns, with a timer for dares that need one.
Spin & Dice
A wheel of moves with custom slices, plus Dirty Dice — three rolls that combine into a single combo. The friction-free way to start a round when you're standing in the kitchen with a glass of wine.
Scratch-Offs
Tactile, hidden prompts — you literally scratch the screen to reveal them. A novelty deck for warming up, or for handing the phone over so they pick the next move.
The hardest part, made easy
Telling your partner about a fantasy, a curiosity, or a hard limit shouldn't feel like a job interview. The Yes / No deck turns the conversation into a quiet game with one rule: the only thing you ever see is what you both say yes to.
Swipe in private
You each get the same deck. No one watches you tap.
Only mutual yes is shown
Smolder reveals only the cards you both said yes to — never your individual answers.
Talk about it on your terms
Use the matches as a starting point — for tonight, for next month, or never. You decide.
Date-night recipes
Smolder is a kit, not a script. Here are four pairings we keep coming back to — borrow them, then make them yours.
Tuesday in
You both made it home. That counts. Twenty intentional minutes is plenty.
Hotel night
Stretch the night out. A slow buildup beats trying to remember what you wanted to do.
Long-distance
Whisper makes the room small for ten minutes — even when you're 1,000 miles apart.
Reconnect
Skip the heat dial. The point is being on the same team for an hour.
Why it's different
Smolder is the opposite of a dating app. There's nobody to find, nothing to perform, no leaderboard. It exists to put a small spark in the room you're already standing in.
Honest answers
Smolder is launching on iPhone soon. Read the ground rules first so you know exactly what you're getting — for you and your person.
Curious about the voice? See sample prompts (18+) →